Ok, it's more like a Saturday afternoon post, but evening sounds better for the title.
What a lovely Saturday!
The morning began with a lovely hour and a half jog.
Followed by a crafting afternoon that turned this:
Into this!
{I bought the case off ebay for $3.97 and the bow at target $3.39 for a pack of six. Super glue the bow to the cover and ta-da! Girlified iphone case!}
Matt and I had the coolest thing happen to us and just had to share with how God is working in our lives! I'll back up a little bit...moving to Tulsa was a huge step for both of us! For people on the outside, it looked rushed and hectic, like we were being impulsive and irresponsible about our decision to leave. However, no one knows that me and Matt had been feeling a change coming for quite a while, and only let a select few people in on what was going on in our hearts. So when the change finally presented itself, we both knew God was in it and decided to take a leap of faith and leave all things comfortable and safe for a brand new adventure {one in which we couldn't see all the details}! Well when we arrived, things were a little different than what we were initially expecting {which is part of the beauty of life}, but nothing we couldn't handle and we made it work. We still knew we had made the right decision and were loving our new life! However, a few things happened that have made the past two months quite a struggle. We had quite a few unexpected financial set-backs that made us question if we had done or were doing the right thing. There was one night that felt like a breaking point for both of us. Not in matter of breaking our marriage, but in a matter that we both felt completely drained and desperate for answers. It was one of those times when you're asking all the honest questions, and silence seems to be the only response. In all the three years that I've known Matt, I can count two times when I've seen him cry, and one of those times was that night. I felt so helpless because I'm usually the one crying and being held by him! All I could do was tell him that God had not forgotten us and that everything was going to be ok. Those were words that I didn't even believe at the time and I felt like such a hypocrite saying them. I knew deep down in my heart they were truths, but there seemed to be no light beaming from them. So.....I began to pray. We needed manna from heaven.
Matt had been asked a few months ago to be a part of a wedding ceremony for one of his close friends that he grew up with. The friend and his {soon-to-be} wife had dated four years and finally decided to tie the knot! It was such a fun wedding to be a part of....one of those weddings where both families are just beaming with excitement and so is everyone attending! It was a great time with homemade food and lots of stories! The best part was that I was finally able to meet all the people that Matt had gotten into trouble with when he was younger! And for those of you who have met Matt, you wouldn't be surprised to learn that he was quite the the hooligan in his younger years! But really, not much has changed since then! One of his friends that he had gotten in a particular amount of trouble with had drove in from out of town for the wedding with his new wife of only a couple months. The two of them are getting ready to head over to the Philippines as missionaries to be part of project called "FUEL" and have some of the most incredible hearts of anyone we've met! FUEL is a project that's designed to pinpoint and excel the passions of each individual, something that is nearly unheard of in the Filipino culture. They have started advertising the program with wrist bands that read "What is your passion?" and already, the wrist bands have made it across the college campuses and even the President of one of the colleges has boasted wearing one and holding assemblies to get students excited! We both felt inspired after talking with them! You can find out more about them and project Fuel here.
Anyway, after having coffee with the two of them, we were making our way to the cars and Matt's friend changed the direction of conversation and said, "You know, my aunt gave me some money and right when she handed it to me, God brought your name to mind. So here." And with that, he handed Matt the money. We were both speechless. And at that moment, it was like God had wrapped us both in a huge hug and said, "See, I told you I haven't forgotten about you!" Matt fumbled over his words for a minute but all he could say was, "Thanks, man!" Such a guy. He did go on to tell him a little about our struggle and how God used this as confirmation that we're exactly where we need to be. I just stood there, coaching myself to hold back the tears that were about to spill over. My efforts were in vain as Matt took one look at me and said, "And she's going to cry." I burst in to tears and said, "Yes!" I hugged them both and told them how grateful we were. We all talked a bit longer and then went our separate ways. We almost felt guilty taking the money after hearing their incredible story and debated on refusing it, but then by doing so it would have been like shoving God's gift of confirmation and blessing right back in his face.
So Matt and I both got in our truck. And even though I have been accused of {slight} exaggeration at moments, I'm being 100% honest when I tell you what song was playing when the radio turned on......
My response to God: "Ok, now you're just showing off!"
God is good, even in our darkest moments. He's the light that shines in the darkness....even when the darkness seems never-ending!
Let me add one more part to the story so you can know how really good God is!
Before we went out to coffee with Matt's friend and his wife, let me just mention it was a Sunday and that particular Sunday we didn't pay tithes! {GASP!!} Hah, I already know. But before you start sending me messages filled with Bible verses about tithing, let me just mention that we had to drive separate cars to church that week because he was playing on the worship team...so it was one of those times where I thought he paid and he thought I paid. End of story. But that makes the story that much more cool because once again, it just shows how much God loves us!! A lot of times, I think people try to manipulate God with money. They tithe or give in the offering because they think that will give them God's blessings. But really what they're doing is trying to play God like a puppet. What we fail to grasp about God is that there are NO STRINGS ATTACHED to anything he does! Just because we're good people doesn't mean he loves us more or is going to do more for us than a person who isn't so good. God gives freely and will not be mocked or manipulated by our actions. Think about this, if God could be manipulated by our money or actions, what would make him any different than us?? He wouldn't be a very big god if you ask me. But what makes God so great is that everyone is equally loved in his eyes and all he desires is an individual relationship with us. It's such a beautiful thing and a testament to his love and grace. Grace gives us what we don't deserve and saves us from what we do deserve. And let me just reiterate one more time that I fully believe in tithing and it's something I would recommend for everyone....whether you go to church or not. Give God your firsts and see how he blesses you!
Just in case you missed those lyrics....
"Calling All Angels" I need a sign to let me know you're here All of these lines are being crossed over the atmosphere I need to know that things are gonna look up 'Cause I feel us drowning in a sea spilled from a cup When there is no place safe and no safe place to put my head When you feel the world shake from the words that are said [Chorus:] And I'm calling all angels I'm calling all you angels I won't give up if you don't give up[Repeat x4] I need a sign to let me know you're here 'Cause my TV set just keeps it all from being clear I want a reason for the way things have to be I need a hand to help build up some kind of hope inside of me [Chorus] When children have to play inside so they don't disappear While private eyes solve marriage lies cause we don't talk for years And football teams are kissing Queens and losing sight of having dreams In a world that what we want is only what we want until it's ours [Chorus x2] Calling all you angels[Repeat till fade]
I've said it before and I'll say it again....if I could have a love affair, it would be with avocados!!!!! I just absolutely ell-oh-vee-ee them {that spells LOVE, for those of you who didn't grow up on the mickey mouse club songs}! And just when you thought they couldn't get any better, I'm here to introduce you to a brand new way of using them for oh-so-wonderful results! But before I do that, let's take a quick look at the health benefits that they provide!
Numero Uno: Cancer Prevention
Avocados not only taste delicious, but they've also been shown to inhibit the growth of prostate cancer, seek out oral pre-cancerous and cancerous cells and destroy them without harming healthy cells and helps prevent breast cancer! Need I go on?!
Anyway, what can I say, they speak for themselves! I know you're already reaching for that bag of chips and salsa so you can make some guacamole! BUT WAIT!!!!! Before you use up that whole avocado, set aside a tablespoon of it for a special therapeutical treat:
DIY Avocado Facial
Take that tablespoon of avocado that you set aside {approximate} and mash it up until it's all sorts of mushy! Then, lather on a clean, dry face and let sit for about 10 minutes! Rinse and.....ta-da! Introducing the softest face you've ever had!
Now, if you're like me, you're going, "Put an avocado on my face?! YEAH RIGHT!!" And you're right, it sounds crazy! I was saying the exact same thing. My face is the most temperamental thing you'll ever see, so it took my mom {a Mary Kay sales rep and all-around makeup goo-roo} a few times trying it and convincing me my face wouldn't erupt into a mountain of oozing zits before I tried this wonderful DIY spa trick. But let me just say, it's now part of my weekly masking ritual. The skin perks of this mask include: Vitamins A & C {both help with anti-aging}, anti-microbial properties and oils to help moisturize. I'll stop there because I'm starting to sound like one of those late night infomercials! Read more about the health benefits here.
Let me know if you try it! If you're anything like me, I'm always up for anything all-natural!! I think my next step will be the banana facial! How much crazier can it get?!
